Can the Shy Guy Smash Pussy in Latin America?

Can the shy guy smash pussy in Latin America?

Latin America.

The land of sun, beaches, exciting music, drinks and exotic women.

Can such a guy -- with music like this playing all the time in the beaches of Rio de Janeiro or wherever the fuck else -- really be getting pussy?

In places like Brazil, I've even heard other expats say that supposedly women will think you are gay if you don't kiss on the first date.

In contrast, Latin American men are often characterized as some "Latin Lover" shit where they always making their moves.

If you're making your moves quickly, someone else will steal your bitch and leave you without pussy!

Can such a shy guy -- a man some might call a maricon down here -- really be getting any bitches?

Or is he the first one on a plane back home to replace Latinas that never looked his way with Pornhub?

There's a tweet I saw here that got me thinking on the subject briefly.

Where in Latin America? 

Some of the above is bullshit to be fair.

Not every Latin American dude is some stereotypical "Latin Lover" type shit.

It's almost comical to think that in Mexico where you have no shortage of 5'6 and 5'7 dudes with the hair of an incel no money and a bit on the chubby side.

Not to mention that there's plenty of dudes here who are not the most social people either.

So let's not get carried away with what your local competition is down here.

The local competition does depend heavily on what part of Latin America.

In best case scenario, your local competition are dudes from Chiapas.

Though if you are hanging in Chiapas, probably not as many local women either that you'll like unless you dig that indigenous girl look.

But, as I wrote here, some guys do!

In contrast, the competition is higher in a place like Rio de Janeiro for example.

Regardless, the shy guy can probably still get some pussy though even in a place like Rio de Janeiro.

So geography does matter but it's more than that.

Who is the Shy Guy in Latin America?

I've seen a few of these cases down here and, quite frankly, they don't seem disappointed either.

Nor do they seem like they are having a bad time getting women.

Granted, the women they are getting are not super models.

For example, as I wrote here, there was a Wisconsin dude named John that I once met who was the stereotypical example of the shy guy that'd wait for signals from a woman that she is interested.

And even he, in his earlier days in Bolivia, managed to get some local chick to be his girlfriend.

In his defense, she was Mexican-Bolivian.

OK, that still doesn't sound as hot as Brazilian or Colombian but whatever. He was happy.

And that's the thing about a lot of these shy guys that some gringos think wouldn't make it down here.

Said gringos probably would not be happy fucking or having a girlfriend of the looks that these shy guys get but the shy guy is happy as a clam.

Most likely because 1) he doesn't have too many degenerate bones in his body to smash as much pussy as possible and 2) the chick he has is still probably a little bit better than what he was getting back home.

She probably has a better personality overall.

Maybe better in looks but that depends on the country.

If we were talking Mexico, my bets are that she is fat but his luck on the looks will probably go farther in a place like Nicaragua or Paraguay where obesity is lower.

Though, as you can see here, there was one American dude I knew almost 2 years ago named Alex.

He was close to my age and very much the definition of a nerdy, shy dude.

Moved into the apartment I lived in at Roma Norte of Mexico City.

He was nice overall but didn't have the vibe of a man who is fucking lots of women and he definitely seemed more shy and not the type to make too many moves too quickly on women.

But even he was getting some women easy enough.

Some local gal he met was really into him. They went on a date. But he lost interest.

Like I said, he didn't know how to handle women as well and was very nervous and literally asking for advice on how to tell her he isn't interested.

And, in my time living in the same building, I knew he met up with other women easily enough.

As you can see here, he seems to be dating one now.

While I covered up their faces to respect their privacy, I can say her face is OK.

She's not a super model but doesn't have an ugly face. Just normal.

Not fat either and, in Mexico where obesity is high, that's definitely a plus.

So the Shy Guy is seemingly doing OK.

Among other dudes I have occasionally met down here who don't seem the type to get lots (or any) women at all but do alright down here.

Of course, there are plenty of men who don't also.

Especially your stereotypical 50 year old who gets played by a 20 year old cam model or some shit from Colombia.

Still, there are some reasons why some of these men can do alright.

Being a Foreigner

If we're being honest, this really is one of the main reason why shy guys can do well in Latin America.

And, when I say well, I mean well for them.

That needs to be emphasized again.

These guys are not killing it with the hottest women.

They aren't even going through dozens of women to have sex with.

More of the type to settle with the first average, non-fat looking woman that doesn't have a shit personality and finds him "cute" and possibly prefers foreign men.

And, regardless of if she has a preference for foreign men, him being a foreigner probably helps him in her eyes.

He's more likely to have more money or at least is assumed to have more money and that helps him with women who want to start a family or who are single mothers as I wrote here.

He's more interesting either way.

Some local women -- as I mentioned here -- simply hate dating local women for various reasons and so he has a bonus there.

Some have a preference for white skin.

Whatever the fuck else.

Regardless of the reasons, the shy guy is attractive to some of the women here and can then get better dating results here than back home.

Let's be honest here: if the American shy guy was a local, he'd get a lot less interest.

Turn his ass medium brown skin, no English, doesn't come from a first world country, isn't assumed to have a lot more money than the average local and keep him shy.

That type of shy local is waiting 6 months for the pussy from any one woman.

Maybe, if he's lucky, he'll get a handjob on a beach from a morbidly obese local woman.

And he's probably going to have to spend a greater percentage of his monthly income on food dates to get the game going with any specific local woman.

But turn him into a gringo?

And he's more interesting at the very least.

Those food dates cost him basically pennies compared to his salary versus the salary of the shy local.

And, while the shy gringo isn't smashing on the first date like other gringos, he probably isn't waiting 6 months.

Remember John from Bolivia?

I don't know if John ever fucked her but I do remember him calling his parents a week or two after they met and telling them that he has a girlfriend.

So probably the pussy was smashed.

In short, for many reasons, being a foreigner does help the shy guy and, if he was a shy local, he probably would have a harder time.

Break Out of Shell?

Finally, we have this comment here in reply to that one Tweet. 

Where, for the shy guy, living in Latin America can perhaps help him "break out of his shell."

That's probably true.

Not entirely sure though.

I've consistently seen the shy guy basically date seriously and/or wife up one of the first local women (if not the first) that is not fat, has a reasonable personality, probably beneath him in looks but is a woman he is overall satisfied with and probably better than what he was getting home.

I don't think I've seen the shy guy go into full PUA mode down here and break out of his shell going from no pussy back home to smashing hundreds of women.

Unless he was autistic as fuck.

If you throw in autism where he isn't just a shy guy but an autistic shy guy, then yeah he'll probably morph into some hound that is going blind from staring at his phone for too long swiping on Tinder 14 hours a day.

But, out of all of the gringos who have come down here looking for pussy, I'm sure some were shy guys without autism that turned into pussy slaying chads.

Maybe I've met some and my memory is fucking with me right now.

Still, I mostly agree with this point anyhow.

Regardless of how much pussy the shy guy chases down here, he'll probably get a boost of confidence from the better dating success that he gets down here versus back home.

And that -- mixed in with nicer weather, exciting times traveling to beaches and any other benefits  -- will likely help him break out of his shell more.

Which would lead to more pussy (assuming he doesn't marry the first woman that gives him a blowjob).

Final Verdict: Shy Guys Smash Latina Pussy?

It's all a generalization anyhow.

I'm sure some shy guys never get pussy here.

Others do.

Some go full autism trying to smash every woman he sees (no matter how ugly).

Though maybe some were not autistic and break out of the shell and smash more.

Many others marry the first woman that likes him.

And, in the latter case (which I've seen enough of), they always seem happy.

Seemingly with better results down here than back home.

Even if the dude doesn't have a group of 10 of the best women surrounding him, he's still happy and I guess doing better than how he would be otherwise.

So while I agree that the shy guy isn't doing as well as other gringos and doesn't have the right personality that fits best for dating Latinas, I don't see him failing at dating down here.

He'll be OK.

His future 5/10 Mexican wife will have a nicer personality than what he was more likely to get back home, probably be a decent mother to his kids, never had an OnlyFans or student loan debt and will make him enchiladas every Thursday at 7 PM.

Not to forget the one time a week that she'll engage in missionary with him every Saturday at 10:13 PM right after the mother-in-law shows up to see the grandchildren.

So does the shy guy win in Latin America?

Well, from his perspective, he's a happy camper and will be OK.

Anything to Add?

Anyway, that's all I got to say.

It's not that much of a topic.

"Can a shy guy be happy dating in Latin America?"

Sure. Within reason. 

He's not going to be Dan Bilzerian most likely.

And there's no shortage of guys who claim to be as such down are are full of shit hiring prostitutes or banging chicks that look like they got down syndrome (though some really do kill it).

But he'll happy most likely.

So that's all.

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Thanks for reading.

Best regards,

Matt

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