Just the other day, I got on the metro for the first time in a month after having moved to Iztapalapa of Mexico City.
As I got on the metro to get to Bellas Artes from Metro UAM, I was met with an unpleasant surprise.
There was only one gay couple sitting in the metro with nobody else walking or sitting in this specific part of the train.
And one of the dudes had his dick out being jerked off by the other guy.
Immediately, I walked out of the train and got onto the next one.
Similarly, I have seen other incidents recently of young couples basically trying to fuck in public.
I'm not sure what it is about this month of August but it seems to be high time for fucking your partner somewhere in public down here in Mexico City.
Just the other day, I was walking around Olivos Park in Tlahuac and got onto some dirt path that led me up hill.
Once I got to the top, I immediately see this young couple sitting on a little stone wall where they were making out, his hands were on her tits behind the shirt and she was clearing jerking him off.
Suffice to say, I just kept on walking and minded my own business.
But they did notice me and the chick had a 180 reaction in which she immediately looked embarassed or concerned, got up from off the wall and stood in front of him while looking towards the ground.
The dude looked at me with probably something going off in his mind like "cmon man, it was getting good!!"
Obviously, I kept on walking and got out of there.
Personally, I don't care one way or the other if a young couple wants to fuck in public.
Quite frankly, I've been guilty of it too on numerous occasions!
Be it fucking on some isolated beach in Colombia.
To getting a half ass handjob in a bar in Colombia as I wrote about here.
Or fingering random chicks I am dating formally or on a date with from Tinder in public in Mexico City.
There used to be one chick especially named Alma that I saw a few times in Mexico City over a year ago where I would always finger her somewhere in public.
Usually late at night on a public bench in whatever random park in Roma Norte.
So it's not like it's just Latin Americans who like a little bit of public loving or that I have much to judge.
Hey, some of us gringos are guilty of it too!
....Especially if we're in our 20s.
Regardless though, I do remember that being one of my initial impressions when I began my time traveling through Latin America.
It just became apparent to me how more commonly people down here like to make out a lot or do whatever in public versus back home.
Of course, I'm from a small town and so it's not the best comparison from a small town to a very urban and populated place like Mexico City, Barranquilla, Cochabamba, etc.
But Cochabamba -- a city in Bolivia -- was actually one of the first places where I noticed this difference.
I was working for some NGO and basically had to take a mini van to some street where I'd get off and begin walking back home from there.
The walk always involved passing by a small park that always had endless amounts of couples making out on the grass.
Everywhere!
And they were all basically one step away from stripping naked and fucking right there.
Reminds me of this song from The Smashing Pumpkins here.
Smashing Pumpkins -- Today
Looking back at it, they probably should've turned the park into a "nature motel."
Clearly, they prefer making out on the grass than in a bed!
So why not keep the grass but build little spaces with walls where they can walk into for making out, fucking, etc.
It'd be like how you got public bathrooms but, in this case, it's public fuck rooms.
At no charge to them either -- all paid for by the tax payer.
Because, if we're being honest, it didn't seem like that park was being used for much else.
Didn't see anyone walking the dog except at around 7 AM when I was going to work.
Probably getting that dog walk in early so little Bella doesn't have to see countless Bolivians fucking on the grass.
|Well, they were almost to the point of fucking but always had limits as I said!
Either way though, it's definitely one thing you notice over time here as I said before.
In a region known for having strong Catholicism, perhaps it'd be a surprise to some not yet exposed to Latin America to find out how much public loving is going on.
Almost always though it's just kissing.
Once in a blue moon though, it might end up being some dude with his rock hard 3.7 inch dick for all to see.
That's when you go back home to bleach the eyes.
Anyway, it's just a minor detail to life down here.
The only other thing to add I suppose is that, in terms of dating down here, it might be a benefit I suppose as it does seem more tolerated among some down here.
And, as I wrote here, you can always try to bribe your way out if you get caught fucking in public.
I did once and it turned out fine!
But that's all I got to say.
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Best regards,
Matt
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